Understanding Neurofatigue: listening to your brain
- Cheryl
- 17 hours ago
- 3 min read
Day 22
When I first started recovering from my stroke, I thought being tired all the time was just part of healing. But what I was really experiencing was something more specific—neurofatigue.
After brain injury, the brain works harder to do things that once came easily—talking, reading, remembering, or even focusing on conversation. Every simple act takes more energy. This isn’t “laziness” or “low motivation”—it’s a sign that your brain is working hard to rebuild new pathways through neuroplasticity.
Just like a muscle tires after a workout, your brain tires after rebuilding and rerouting connections. That’s neurofatigue.
My Experience With Neurofatigue
I tried to return to work after my stroke. After four months of TDI, I thought I was ready—even though my speech and language challenges made things difficult. But it wasn’t my words that stopped me. It was neurofatigue.
Even short periods of cognitive activity—thinking, reading, or problem-solving—would cause tremendous pain and pressure behind my eyes. It felt like my brain just couldn’t take in more.
I was only working 10 hours per week, taking breaks and pacing myself. But even then, I had nothing left for home or life outside of work. My quality of life suffered. Eventually, I had to accept that I couldn’t continue working and began receiving SSDI.
That decision was heartbreaking—but it was also an act of self-care. My brain needed more than effort; it needed rest.
What Is Neurofatigue?
Neurofatigue is a deep mental exhaustion that happens when your injured brain uses extra energy for ordinary tasks.Some studies show that the brain after stroke can use up to two to three times more energy than before for basic communication or problem-solving.
You might notice:
Trouble concentrating or remembering simple things.
Difficulty speaking clearly or finding words as the day goes on.
Heightened emotions or frustration after social interaction.
Needing more rest than you used to.
This fatigue isn’t something you can “push through.” It’s your brain signaling that it needs time to restore energy and heal.
Neuroplasticity and Rest: Partners in Recovery
We often talk about neuroplasticity—the brain’s ability to rewire and create new connections after injury. But what’s less talked about is how much rest supports that rewiring process.
Resting allows the brain to consolidate learning, strengthen new neural pathways, and recover from effort.Pushing too hard can actually slow progress or increase frustration and anxiety.
So, rest isn’t wasted time—it’s part of the work of recovery.
Ways to Cope and Protect Your Energy
Try the Pomodoro Technique.Early in my recovery, I used short bursts of activity followed by rest—similar to the Pomodoro method. At first, I could only manage 5 minutes of cognitive work before needing a break. I’d switch to something physical or meditative, like stretching or breathing.Over time, I slowly built up to 20-minute sessions, followed by rest. This rhythm helped my brain heal without pushing it into pain or overload.
Plan your day around your best brain time.Do speech therapy, appointments, or conversations when you have the most energy.
Rest before you crash.Take short breaks throughout the day, even before you feel exhausted.
Use quiet communication.Write, gesture, or text to give your brain a speech break.
Include mental health care.Support from a counselor, psychologist, or neuropsychologist can help manage both fatigue and the emotions that come with it.
Connecting to Mental Health
it’s important to remember that neurofatigue and mental health are closely linked. When we’re overtired, we’re more likely to feel anxious, sad, or overwhelmed.
Studies show that 1 in 3 stroke survivors experience depression or anxiety, and the rates are even higher for people with communication challenges like aphasia.Recognizing neurofatigue and pacing ourselves can help protect both mental and neurological health.
My Reflection
At first, I thought resting meant I wasn’t trying hard enough. But I learned that listening to my brain—really listening—was key to recovery.
Following that 5-minute rhythm, then slowly extending it, helped me rebuild stamina without pain. The pattern of gentle work and intentional rest gave me more clarity, more calm, and even more confidence.
Now I see rest as part of my therapy—not the opposite of it.
Tip of the Day
💛 Neurofatigue isn’t failure—it’s feedback.Healing happens in both the effort and the rest.Give your brain the grace it needs to grow

Note: Because aphasia makes speaking, reading, and writing more challenging, I use tools like ChatGPT to help me organize my thoughts, check for consistency, and make sure my writing is clear and cohesive. Technology has become an important part of how I share my story and continue my recovery.
Interesting and helpful post, Cheryl. I also suffer from neurofatigue.
I work with individuals and focus on teaching them how to stay in tune with their mind, bodies and soul while they are CEO of their business. You story and expereinces with neurofatigue is inspirational and a great example of being graceful to yourself and listening to your body. I have enjoyed reading about your recovery journey and seeing how you have learned to adapt and learn new ways of enjoying your life.
Very interesting post Cheryl! You seem like someone who never stops trying to learn new ways to climb your mountain of health.